Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Break the ice, get out of routine, and have real conversations. Curated to feel natural — not like an interview.

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  1. 0. What's something about your childhood you've never shared with me?
  2. 1. What's your happiest memory from before we met?
  3. 2. What did you want to be when you grew up?
  4. 3. What's a dream you had that you've given up on?
  5. 4. What's the best advice you've ever received?
  6. 5. What's a moment that changed the way you see the world?
  7. 6. What's your favorite memory of us so far?
  8. 7. What were you like as a teenager?
  9. 8. What's something you believed as a kid that you now find funny?
  10. 9. What's a tradition from your family you'd want to keep?
  11. 10. What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done?
  12. 11. What's something on your bucket list you haven't told me about?
  13. 12. What's the hardest decision you've ever made?
  14. 13. What achievement are you most proud of?
  15. 14. What's a book, movie, or song that changed your life?
  16. 15. What's your favorite way to spend a lazy Sunday?
  17. 16. What's something you wish you were better at?
  18. 17. What's the most important lesson your parents taught you?
  19. 18. What's a place you've always wanted to visit together?
  20. 19. What does your ideal retirement look like?
  21. 20. What's something about me that surprised you when we first met?
  22. 21. What's the best gift you've ever received?
  23. 22. What's a hobby you'd love to pick up someday?
  24. 23. What's your earliest memory?
  25. 24. What's something you do that makes you feel most like yourself?
  26. 25. What's a small moment that means a lot to you?
  27. 26. What's something that always makes you nostalgic?
  28. 27. What would younger you think about your life now?
  29. 28. What's the nicest thing a stranger has ever done for you?
  30. 29. What's something you wish more people understood about you?
  31. 30. What's a risk you took that paid off?
  32. 31. What's your love language, and how did you discover it?
  33. 32. What's the most romantic thing you've ever experienced?
  34. 33. What's something you never get tired of talking about?
  35. 34. What's a goal you're secretly working toward?
  36. 35. What part of yourself do you feel only I truly know?
  37. 36. What gives you peace in our relationship?
  38. 37. What's something you need but find hard to ask for?
  39. 38. What does 'feeling chosen' by me look like to you?
  40. 39. What would you like me to understand about the way you love?
  41. 40. What makes you feel safe when we disagree?
  42. 41. What do you value most about us as a team?
  43. 42. What fear sometimes surfaces for you in love?
  44. 43. What unspoken promise would you like us to have?
  45. 44. How do you like to be supported when you're sad?
  46. 45. What conversation have we been avoiding, and why?
  47. 46. What would you like us to celebrate more in our daily life?
  48. 47. What's something I do in everyday life that makes you fall in love with me?
  49. 48. How does your childhood influence the way you love today?
  50. 49. What do you need to feel truly heard?
  51. 50. What boundary of yours would you like me to respect better?
  52. 51. What does loyalty mean to you in a relationship?
  53. 52. What personal dream would you like me to support more?
  54. 53. What would you like us to build together in the next year?
  55. 54. What's a non-negotiable for you in a healthy relationship?
  56. 55. What emotional habit would you like us to practice together?
  57. 56. What would you like to tell me more often but forget to?
  58. 57. What would make you feel more proud of us?
  59. 58. What memory of us keeps you going when you're down?
  60. 59. What does intimacy mean to you beyond the physical?
  61. 60. What small thing can I do to take better care of you?
  62. 61. What's something you never want us to stop doing as a couple?
  63. 62. How do you picture a peaceful, beautiful life together?
  64. 63. What's the hardest thing about being vulnerable with me?
  65. 64. What do you think is our greatest strength as a couple?
  66. 65. If we could teleport anywhere right now, where would you want to go?
  67. 66. What's the most embarrassing song you secretly love?
  68. 67. If you had to eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  69. 68. What's your most unpopular opinion?
  70. 69. If you could have any superpower, what would you choose?
  71. 70. What's the weirdest dream you've ever had about me?
  72. 71. If we were in a zombie apocalypse, what would be your survival strategy?
  73. 72. What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to us?
  74. 73. If you could swap lives with any celebrity for a day, who would it be?
  75. 74. What's a skill you wish you had but would never actually learn?
  76. 75. If our relationship was a movie, what genre would it be?
  77. 76. What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever bought?
  78. 77. If you could only watch one TV show forever, what would it be?
  79. 78. What's your guilty pleasure that you're not ashamed of?
  80. 79. If you won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do?
  81. 80. What's the worst fashion trend you ever participated in?
  82. 81. If you could be any animal for a day, what would you choose?
  83. 82. What's the most useless talent you have?
  84. 83. If you could uninvent one thing, what would it be?
  85. 84. What's the strangest food combination you actually enjoy?
  86. 85. If you had to describe me using only three emojis, which would you pick?
  87. 86. What would your entrance song be if you had one?
  88. 87. If you could master any instrument overnight, which would it be?
  89. 88. What's the most childish thing you still do?
  90. 89. If you could time travel, would you go to the past or future?
  91. 90. What's something you've always wanted to try with me but haven't mentioned?
  92. 91. What's the most attractive thing I do without realizing it?
  93. 92. What's a fantasy you'd feel comfortable sharing with me?
  94. 93. Where's your favorite place to be touched?
  95. 94. What's something I wear that drives you crazy?
  96. 95. What's your favorite memory of us being intimate?
  97. 96. What's a way I could initiate more that you'd enjoy?
  98. 97. What turns you on that might surprise me?
  99. 98. What's the most romantic thing I've ever done for you?
  100. 99. What's a compliment about my body you want to hear more often?
  101. 100. What time of day do you feel most in the mood?
  102. 101. What's a place you'd love to be intimate that we haven't tried?
  103. 102. What's something I do in bed that you love?
  104. 103. What's a way we could build more anticipation?
  105. 104. What makes you feel most desired by me?
  106. 105. What's a boundary you have that you want me to respect?
  107. 106. What's something new you'd be open to exploring together?
  108. 107. What words do you like hearing when we're intimate?
  109. 108. What's your love language when it comes to physical intimacy?
  110. 109. What's a way I could be more attentive to your needs?
  111. 110. What's a song that puts you in the mood?
  112. 111. What's something you find attractive that you've never told me?
  113. 112. What does foreplay mean to you?
  114. 113. What's a way we could reconnect physically after a busy week?
  115. 114. What's something about our intimate life you'd like more of?

What questions should I ask my boyfriend to know him better?

Start with simple questions (routines, dreams, stories) and then go deeper. In Amora, you each answer first, then see each other's responses for more honest conversations.

Are these questions like therapy?

No. They're conversation starters to connect. If you need professional help, it's best to seek a qualified therapist.